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Posing and advice for camera-shy couples who want natural photos.

Updated: Nov 27, 2024

Choose the right photographer for you.

I truly believe that the most important aspect of looking relaxed in your wedding photos is finding a wedding photographer who you trust and like. This trust can be built over time through a series of meetings and maybe an engagement or pre-wedding shoot but can also be built in a few moments of talking without cameras before your shoot starts.


Get in the zone mentally

Capturing authentic true emotions starts with creating authentic moments between the two of you and it is important in your shoot time to allow a little time for reflection, excitement and fun.


So we start with a little shake out of your hands, we're getting in the zone and allowing the photos to reflect the vibe of your day and the love you share with each other and not how you feel about having your photo taken. Throughout the next 10 minutes, I will ask you leading questions along with giving simple guided instructions for variety while focusing on strengthing the emotional bond between you.


I might some of the following questions:

So x, tell me about your proposal.

What was the moment you knew you wanted to spend the rest of your life with X?

How do you see the next 10 years together?

What did you think when you saw x at the end of the aisle?


Now let's get into what to do with your body.


Walking for natural variety.

Starting with the obvious choice, walking hand in hand, arm in arm or with your arms round each other and talking to each other. You can get a surprisingly large number of intimate and natural photos just walking around the venue, think - hands holding each other, wide shots with the venue in the background, shots of the full back of your dress or little close-up details of you talking to each other. I think the photos walking away are equally as beautiful as the photos walking towards the camera and this allows you a chance to reconnect on your big day, not worry about the camera and get comfortable having your photo taken in a natural way.

A couple walk hand in hand at Great Fosters in Egham

Looking at your partner, not down the lens!

Looking down the lens of a massive camera can be so intimidating and those emotions can be immediately seen in photos. When you look at someone you love your face lights up, your eyes are a little brighter and your smile is a little wider. If you've ever seen me in action, chances are you've heard me holler- look at each other! And that's because the connection you have with each other is the most important thing (in my opinion to capture.) In place of someone to look at nearby simply focusing on something over the shoulder of your photographer is a good substitute.

A bride looks out of the window of her wedding car


A little more adventurous now, an activity- like a lift!

Lifts don't need to be over the top and I've found often in wedding dresses a lift is hard work. But anything that gets a little giggle is perfect for camera-shy couples so even a little run, a jump into each other's arms or an old-fashioned dance.

A groom lifts his bride at Sandford Springs

A wide shot- where even is the photographer!?

Cuddle up into each other's arms while your photographer runs away, just kidding but often wide shots are taken from a little way away allowing you to just get cosy and not worry about posing or the camera.

A bride and groom infront of st pauls cathedral

If you're looking for a photographer who can capture true emotions and create authentic moments for you get in touch!

Cat x

Comments


hi! I'm cat and i am a full time wedding photographer
(and a little bit of a photography geek!)
 
I started taking photos as a teenager, my Dad was a wedding photographer and I would often help him. In 2021 I left my corporate job with a dream and hope that I could make photography a full time job. Since then I have been pouring my heart and soul into this business and have been honoured to be chosen as wedding photographer for so many lovely couples as well as being a portrait and event photographer.  
I TAKE CLASSIC, TIMELESS, DOCUMENTARY STYLE PHOTOGRAPHS WITH MINIMAL INTRUSION

 

But I will step in and offer gentle guidance when it's right to do so, I have learned over the years to read the room, anticipate the next move, hold space when needed and offer support when I can.

aRE YOU LOOKING FOR A WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHER?
When choosing a wedding photographer, consider their style, experience, portfolio, and reviews from previous clients. It's also important to discuss pricing, availability, and any specific requests you may have.
 
Don't forget to meet with them in person to ensure you have good chemistry and feel comfortable with their approach.

Once you have narrowed down your list of potential wedding photographers, it's a good idea to ask them some key questions to help you make your final decision.

 

Here are a few questions to consider:

  • What is your photography style? Do you prefer a more traditional approach or a more candid, documentary style?

  • Do you have experience with weddings of a similar size and style to mine?

  • Can I see a full gallery of a recent wedding you photographed? This will give you a better sense of their consistency and quality of work.

  • Do you have backup equipment in case something goes wrong on the day of the wedding?

  • How do you handle difficult lighting situations (e.g. low light, harsh sunlight, indoor vs. outdoor)? This will help you gauge their technical expertise.

  • What is included in your packages? Are there any additional fees I should be aware of (e.g. travel, overtime)?

  • How long will it take to receive my photos after the wedding? Will they be edited and retouched?

  • Can you accommodate any special requests I have (e.g. specific shots, family portraits)?

  • How do you ensure that you capture all of the important moments on the day of the wedding?

By asking these questions and having an open and honest conversation with your wedding photographer, you can ensure that you find the right fit for your big day.

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